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posted a year ago
My ex-boyfriend is a Japanese and we had a relationship when he came here in the Philippines to study. Before entering into the relationship, I explained to him that I'm now into hook ups and that my parents are very conservative. I also explained the cultural differences between Philippines and Japan. He said he was serious and that he understood. When we did it for the first time, I was very hesitant and showed disapproval but he promised he would take responsibility for it. He would then ask me to send him nude photos through messages and send sexually explicit messages. He would also threaten me that he would use other women's photos to do his thing. I endured because of fear of the social stigma regarding pre-marital sex. He also accused me of sending sexual photos and not saying "no" to his sexual advances to another person. A demand letter was sent to him but he kept on ignoring it. He told me to do legal action but also expressed his intention to run away and hide. What's the best way in this case? He kept accusing me of being a stalker since I often send him messages regarding this matter and my intention to settle this matter immediately.
