Hi there, Could you please provide me some more information first before I provide any answers: 1. which state are you based in? 2. Can you provide copies of the IVO? 3. Is the trial you're referring to the trial regarding the IVO or is there an additional trial? It depends on the seriousness of the charges against your fiancé. In addition, whether the police argue that he is a potential threat or danger to your children's safety. Once you have provided me with a copy of the IVO, I can better advise you.